(June 17 - June 25)
All those nerves and butterflies before the surgery were gone now, but now the frustration of the long road ahead sets in. I will be out of work, which surprisingly I love, I will not be able to play basketball; I will not be able to do much on my camping trip in July; I can’t teach my son this summer to ride his bike without training wheels; I can’t really play with the kids like I would in the summer; I am not much of a help to my wife in regards to chores: cutting the lawn, gardening, house cleaning; and I, just in general, won’t be doing much of anything this summer, at least from an active standpoint. I have stayed somewhat sane in this first week, and have gotten out of the house just enough to not have cabin fever. I was able to attend my sons school function for father’s day, called donuts with dad, as well as his Kindergarten play, which I was extremely happy (so was he), that I made both of those.
The first couple days in regards to pain, I was okay. The numbing agent still didn’t wear off so couldn’t really determine my pain level. It wasn’t till day three where I noticed any pain, but it was just minor. Uncomfortable is the way I have described this stage, as I seem to have to move my leg around in different positions, as each one is comfortable for only 10 mins. The pain was never excruciating, just annoying, but for me worthy of taking some medication, especially at night when it always seemed worse than during the day. I was automatically a pro at the crutches, moving around pretty well, but it definitely hurts my armpits and is causing calluses to form on the palms of my hands. I did attempt a shower after my wife placed a garbage bag, saran wrap, and medical tape over my splint and bandages, and although I was able to clean pretty good, it just seemed dangerous, and have since changed the way I clean my stank ass. Stairs are a no go, and only out of necessity have I gone up and down, kneeling up and sitting as I go down. My son just finished school, but up until yesterday was still there. He is 6 years old and very independent, self-efficient, and well behaved that he will stay home with me, no problem. My daughter, on the other hand, is only 2 and not as easy to watch as him, so she goes to daycare still, and one or two days my amazing, saint of a mother watches her.
I have actually been eating really healthy, knowing that I will be mostly a couch potato, I don’t want to get any fatter than I already am, HEY I’M NOT THAT FAT! So, a silver lining of all this time off, I might actually lose some weight. I have done a lot of blogging, on here as well as on my Tumblr account, caught up on some shows, watched a lot of sports, played some MLB The Show and Battlefield, and have rearranged some financial situations around while I am out of work. Trying to stay as busy as possible has help time go by somewhat fast and makes the days less boring. The aftermath of the surgery has not been that bad. I will be going to the doctors for my post-op appointment on the 29th and I hope the report and status is good. I am very interested to see what it looks like and I hope the doctor lets me take some pictures, so I can share with you all.
Before I close out, I just have to share a very close call that I had. I was at my Mom’s with the family for dinner one night and they set me up in a chair and foot rest outside on the deck. I was out there as my step-dad grilled some chicken on the grill. He is legally blind, but a great griller, nonetheless, but I was out there as an extra set of eyes on the grill. The grill was set up on the sidewalk, just at the bottom of the deck stairs, and I was stationed near the stairs, keeping an eye on the food. Everything was going fine, until I decided to try and get a closer look. I stood up, with out crutches, holding the post by the steps. I then proceeded to attempt to go down the stairs, still with no crutches, holding the post as I hopped down. As my good leg almost landed on the step, my bandaged leg, hit the top step behind me, causing me to lose my balance. I feel, and my natural instinct was to catch my balance by putting other foot down, MY BAD ONE!!! That did not work to well, and I proceeded to falling right of the steps and onto the grass just off the sidewalk. I was down on the grass, laying flat on my back, loudly saying some choice words and phrases, and in some definite pain. My mom and wife, in the kitchen, saw the whole thing and came running out to my step-dad trying to help me out. The morale of the story is USE YOUR CRUTCHES or whatever form of medical mobility device you may have and STAY OFF OF STAIRS! I was extremely lucky to not have seriously injured myself, breaking a bone, busting through my suture, or worse doing more damage to my very tender and healing Achilles. I am an idiot, I know, but I did it for all of you, as an example of what not to do. I was in some minor pain that day and the next but am fine.
Next up: Doctor’s appointment on the 29th!
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June 25th, 2015 at 6:46 pm - Edit
Hey man you should get the iwalk 2.0. I got it within a week of my injury and I was mobile again hands free. I was able to play with the kids, do chores and even mow the lawn within the first couple of weeks of my injury. Trust me it was worth it. Here is my video demonstration of it on youtube. Good luck man!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b2po5cY391g
June 25th, 2015 at 11:30 pm - Edit
Hello- sorry to hear that you joined our club, but welcome. Couple of thoughts based on your post: Consider getting a shower chair- it will make it easier while you are in the NWB stage; a knee scooter can be easier than crutches; and minimize going up and down steps in the beginning as much as possible. I wish you the best in your recovery. There will be a lot of nice people to help you out, offer advice based on personal experiences, and answer any of your questions. Take care.
June 26th, 2015 at 3:35 am - Edit
Close call, BB. I’m at week 7 post-op and still go down stairs on my butt. A friend who ATR’d years ago fell down an entire flight of stairs while on crutches, so that put the fear of G-d in me. Even when you start to bear weight, stairs and hills will remain a challenge.
June 26th, 2015 at 3:36 pm - Edit
Thanks Linda! I actually am in the process of trying to get a shower chair. I considered the scooter but it cost $75 a month. I received my last full pay check today and then the rest will be disability, so money will be tight. I appreciate the support and definitely glad I joined this blog!
I hear ya oscillot! After my close call I have been taking extra precautions with everything I do now. Probably should have done that from the beginning, LOL!
June 27th, 2015 at 1:48 am - Edit
As Linda said, sorry to be welcoming you to this site, however, happy you found it because it is a wonderful resource to have as you progress on the road to recovery. Some insurances will cover the cost of the scooter. Certainly worth looking into as crutches get old very quickly. I purchased one from Walmart.com. They have one priced at about $125. I also use it with pillows to elevate my leg when sitting in a chair. As far as the stairs are concerned, I also fell down while holding the banisters instead of my usual going down on my booty. And down I went. Thankfully, the ATR foot was unaffected but my body sure was pretty bruised and sore for a few days. I also fell off the scooter one time so if you do decide on getting one be very careful. The front wheel on mine went over a flattened pinecone that I did not see and the next thing I knew I was on the ground. Again, ATR foot was fine, however, I scraped my knee very badly and of course, that was the knee I needed to use on the scooter. I also recommend a shower chair. Standing on 1 leg, water and soap = no bueno! So not worth taking any chances. Wishing you well on this journey!!
June 27th, 2015 at 1:14 pm - Edit
Thank you missterik! I appreciate the advice and sorry for your couple mishaps along the way. Good luck on your journey as well!